Ukuhunyushwa kombono ogwazwe ngommese
Incazelo yokubona ummese ugwaziwe ingaba nezincazelo eziningana kuye ngokuthi umbono uvele khona kanye nezici zomuntu siqu zomuntu obonwe. Lo mbono ungase uhunyushwe kahle noma kabi, futhi nazi ezinye izincazelo ezingase zibe khona:
- Ukugwazwa ngommese embonweni kungase kufanekisele ukuba khona kokukhashelwa noma ukukhohlisa okwenzeka ekuphileni komuntu obonwayo. Lokhu kukhohlisa kungase kube umuntu oseduze noma umngane omethembayo, futhi lokhu kungase kube nzima ukubhekana nakho.
- Leli phupho lingase libonise ukuthi kukhona ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi emphefumulweni womuntu obonwe. Kungase kube nokungqubuzana phakathi kwemizwa engqubuzanayo noma izinselelo obhekene nazo, futhi umuntu obonakalayo kudingeka abe namandla nesibindi ukuze anqobe le ngxabano.
- Leli phupho lingase lifanekisela izingozi nezinselele ezisongela umuntu obonwa ekuphileni kwakhe kwansuku zonke. Ummese ungase ube uphawu lwengozi engase ivele endleleni noma ubunzima umuntu abhekana nabo ukuze afinyelele imigomo yakhe.
- Ngezinye izikhathi, leli phupho lingase libe yisixwayiso kumuntu obonwayo ukuze azivikele futhi aqaphele ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu noma indawo ezungezile.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese esiswini ngaphandle kwegazi kungase kuphakamise ukukhathazeka nemibuzo. Ukubona leli phupho ngokuvamile kubonisa umuzwa wobuthakathaka noma ukwesaba ukuhlaselwa, kodwa ngaphandle kwegazi ephusheni, kungaba nencazelo ehlukile. Nazi ezinye izincazelo okungenzeka zaleli phupho:
- Ukugwaza ngommese esiswini ngaphandle kwegazi kungase kufanekisele ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi ophethwe kukho, njengoba ummese ubonisa ubuhlungu obungokwengqondo noma ukudabuka okuzwayo lapho uthwele umthwalo ongokomzwelo.
- Iphupho lingabonisa ukuzizwa ukhungathekile noma umile, njengoba ukugwaza ngaphandle kwegazi kubonisa ukungakwazi ukufeza izinhloso zakho noma ukungakwazi kwakho ukwenza intuthuko edingekayo empilweni yakho.
- Iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi othile uzama ukukulimaza noma ukukulimaza ezingeni lomzwelo noma lezenhlalakahle, noma kunjalo, ukuntuleka kwegazi kubikezela ukuhluleka komzamo wabo.
- Iphupho lingaba isikhumbuzo kuwe sokuthi kufanele uthembele emandleni akho angaphakathi kanye nesineke ukuze unqobe izinselele nobunzima empilweni yakho, naphezu kokungalungi ohlangabezana nakho.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese nokuphuma kwegazi
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese nokuphuma kwegazi kungaba nezincazelo eziningana nezincazelo emhlabeni wokuchazwa kwamaphupho. Nazi ezinye zazo:
- Incazelo yokwesaba nokukhathazeka: Leli phupho lingase lifanekisela ukuba khona kokwesaba nokukhathazeka ngaphakathi komuntu ngokwakhe, njengokugwazwa ngommese nokukhululwa kwegazi kubonakala njengophawu lokusongela nokulimala. Umuntu kufanele anakekele isimo sakhe esingokwengqondo futhi akhululeke emizweni emibi ebangela ukukhathazeka.
- Inkomba yokungqubuzana kwangaphakathi: Iphupho eliphathelene nokugwaza ngommese nokuphuma kwegazi lingabonisa ukuba khona kwengxabano yangaphakathi ekuphileni komuntu.Kumelwe acabange ngokukhululeka kulezi zingxabano futhi alwele ukuthula kwangaphakathi.
- Incazelo yezimiso nezimiso ezisongelwa: Ukugwazwa ngommese negazi eliphuma ephusheni kungase kufanekisele umzamo wokusongela ngenkani izindinganiso nezimiso umuntu azibheka njengezibalulekile. Umuntu angase adinge ukuphikelela lapho ebhekene nezinselele futhi amele izimiso zakhe eziyinhloko.
- Incazelo yempilo nomzimba: Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese futhi kuphuma igazi kungase kubonise ukukhathazeka komuntu ngempilo yakhe engokomzimba. Umuntu kufanele aqaphele futhi anakekele impilo yakhe futhi ahlole noma yiziphi izinkinga zempilo ezingase zidale leli phupho.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho egwazwe ngommese owesifazane oshadile
Izincazelo zamaphupho ziphakathi kwezihloko ezithakazelisa kakhulu kubantu abaningi, futhi kulo mongo, sizoxoxa ngencazelo yephupho ngokugwazwa ngommese kowesifazane oshadile. Ukubona abantu nezehlakalo emaphusheni ngokuvamile kungase kube umfuziselo futhi kuveze imizwa ethile noma okuhlangenwe nakho ekuphileni komuntu ngamunye. Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukuthi ugwazwa ngommese, kungase kuhlotshaniswe nencazelo engaphezu kweyodwa leli phupho futhi lingase libe nezincazelo ezihlukene kuye ngokuthi iphupho linjani kanye nemizwa yomuntu ngamunye yowesifazane oshadile.
Iphupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese kowesifazane oshadile lingase lifanekisela ukukhaphela noma ukukhohlisa ohlangothini lomlingani wakhe. Iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi kukhona ukungabaza ebuhlotsheni bomshado noma ukulindela izinguquko ezimbi empilweni yomshado. Umuntu angase azizwe ekhathazekile futhi esaba ukulahlekelwa ukwethembana nokuvikeleka ebuhlotsheni.
Iphupho lokugwazwa ngommese lingase futhi libonise imizwa yobuthakathaka noma ubuhlungu obungokomzwelo ebuhlotsheni. Iphupho lingasikisela isidingo sokuhlola ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo phakathi kwabalingani ababili futhi kusebenze ukulungisa ubudlelwano obuwohlokayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuphupha ngokugwazwa ngommese kowesifazane oshadile kungase kusho ukuzidela nokuzidela ngenxa yabanye. Iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi kunezingcindezi ezinkulu nokuzidela kowesifazane oshadile nomuzwa wokuthi ubhekene nokulimala kwengqondo noma ngokomzwelo ngenxa yezimo ezinzima abhekana nazo.
Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese ohlangothini likhomba:
• Ukwesaba noma ukukhathazeka ngokukhashelwa noma ukugwazwa emhlane yisihlobo noma umngane oseduze.• Ukuzizwa ubuthakathaka noma ungenamandla phambi kwezinselele zempilo kanye nokungakwazi ukuzivikela.• Ukuba sesimweni esinzima noma esiyingozi kudinga ukuthatha izinqumo ezisheshayo nokuzibophezela.• Ukuzwa ukwesaba ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba noma udlame okwenzeka empeleni kanye nokuba nemizwa yokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka ngenxa yako.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese esandleni kungase kube nezincazelo eziningana. Leli phupho lingase lifanekisele ubuthakathaka noma ukungabi namandla umuntu akuzwayo lapho ebhekana nezinselele zempilo. Ngezinye izikhathi, leli phupho lingaba isikhumbuzo sobuhlungu obungokomzwelo noma bomzimba obuzwayo. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi leli phupho liyisixwayiso somuntu othize ongase azame ukulimaza umphuphi noma amveze ekukhwabaniseni. Ngakho-ke, umuntu kufanele anakekele futhi aqaphele ekusebenzelaneni nabanye.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese esandleni ephusheni kungase kube nezincazelo eziningana ezibonisa ukuba khona kwezinkinga zezimali umphuphi angase abhekane nazo. Uma umuntu ezibona ezigwaza ngommese esandleni sokudla ephusheni, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuthi kukhona umuntu oseduze ohlela ukumkhaphela nokumhlukumeza. Leli phupho lingase limelele inkinga yezezimali lapho umphuphi evezwa khona, futhi ukuphulukiswa kwesilonda kubonisa ukunyamalala kwenkinga yezimali, ukukhokhwa kwezikweletu, nokususwa kokucindezeleka, uNkulunkulu ethanda.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese esandleni ephusheni intombazane engashadile kungase kube inkomba yokuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga ezinkulu zezezimali, nokuthi umphuphi uzobhekana nezinkinga zezezimali. Leli phupho lingase libe yisixwayiso sokukhashelwa okungenzeka kuye esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Kungase futhi kubonise imizwa yokungazethembi kahle kulowo ophuphayo.
Uma uphupha ukuthi ugwazwe ngommese esandleni sakho ephusheni, lokhu kungase kufanekisela ukuthi ubhekene nezimo ezinzima zezimali ezithinta kabi impilo yakho. Ingase iveze isifiso sakho sokuthola ukuzimela futhi uthuthukise isimo sakho sezezimali. Leli phupho lingase futhi libonise isifiso sakho sokuqeda ubuhlobo obunobuthi noma isimo esibi esithinta impilo yakho.
Ukubona umuntu ofanayo egwazwa ngommese esandleni sakhe sokunene ephusheni kungase kube inkomba yokukhohlisa nokuhlukunyezwa kumuntu osondelene nomphuphi.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho ngokugwaza umfowethu ngommese
Ummese emaphusheni uwuphawu olunamandla lwamandla, ukulawula, nobungozi. Ukugwaza umzalwane ngommese kungase kubonise ukuthi kukhona ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi empilweni yangempela phakathi kwabantu abasondelene nomphuphi. Mhlawumbe umphuphi uzwa intukuthelo noma isifiso sokulimaza abanye eqinisweni. Lokhu kungase kubonise ukungezwani ebudlelwaneni bezelamani, ukuncintisana okukhulu, noma ukungezwani phakathi kwabantu. Umuntu angase adinge ukulungisa ubuhlobo bomkhaya noma alungise izingxabano ezikhona ukuze azuze ukuthula kwangaphakathi.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwaza umzalwane ngommese ephusheni kubonisa ukuziphatha okubi komphuphi kanye nokwenza kwakhe iziphambeko nezono. Leli phupho libonisa ukuthi ukude endleleni kaNkulunkulu futhi usesimweni sokuduka. Leli phupho lingase lifanekisele ukwanda kokuziphilisa okuvela kuMdali, njengoba kukhona umuntu ongenabulungisa ovimbela lokhu kudla ukuba kufinyelele kulowo ophuphayo.
Abahumushi abaningi bamaphupho bayavuma ukuthi ukugwaza umzalwane ngommese ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi kunezinkinga eziningi kubantu abaseduze nomphuphi nokuthi okwamanje uhlala endaweni engenampilo.
U-Ibn Sirin uhumusha iphupho lokugwaza umzalwane ngommese njengelibonisa izinkinga umphuphi abhekana nazo ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi izazi zezomthetho nabahumushi bakholelwa ukuthi kungase kubonise ukukhohlisa nokukhaphela kumuntu oseduze.
Uma uzibona ulahla ummese ephusheni, kungase kusho ukuthi umuntu angase afune izindlela zokunqoba izinkinga zamanje futhi anqobe ubunzima.
Ukubona ummese ephusheni kubonisa ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka nokungazethembi. Ukugwaza umzalwane ngommese kungase kubonise ukwenzeka kobuhle, ukunqoba, impumelelo, nokufinyelela umgomo ofisa ukuwufinyelela. Kungase futhi kubonise ububi, ukungabi nabulungisa, nokwehluleka, ngokusho kwencazelo ka-Ibn Sirin.
Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese esiswini unegazi kungaba elinye lamaphupho aphazamisayo nathusayo umuntu angawabona. Iphupho elimayelana nokugwazwa ngommese esiswini lingase lihlobane nemizwa yokwesaba, yokulimala, noma ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo umuntu abhekana nakho ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Kufanele siqaphele ekuchazeni amaphupho futhi singakuchithi ukubaluleka kwawo noma siwagomele njengamaqiniso aqinisekile.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwazwa ngommese esiswini ngegazi kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi ubhekene nobunzima obungokomzwelo kanye nezingxabano zangaphakathi. Leli phupho lingase libonise izingcindezi nokukhathazeka umuntu akuzwayo ekuphileni kwakhe siqu kanye nobudlelwane nabanye. Ukubona inxeba lokugwazwa ngommese nokubonakala kwegazi ephusheni kungase kubonise ukukhashelwa noma ukugxekwa lowo muntu. Leli phupho lingase libe yisixwayiso sokuhlasela okuzayo noma usongo olufihliwe, njengoba umuntu kufanele aqaphele futhi abe namandla nokugonywa ukuze abhekane nalezi zinselele. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi leli phupho liyinkomba yokudideka nobunzima ekuthatheni izinqumo eziphusile ngaleso sikhathi. Umuntu kungase kudingeke ahlole ukuphila kwakhe futhi abhekane nezinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi eziza kuye. Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese esiswini ngaphandle kwegazi kukhombisa izinkinga nezinselelo umphefumulo obhekana nazo empilweni. Uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi ugwazwe ngommese, lokhu kubonisa ukukhathazeka nokwesaba abhekana nakho. Kumuntu wesifazane oshadile uma ephupha egwazwa ngommese ephusheni kungaphumi gazi esiswini lokho kukhomba isidingo sokulungisa izinkinga nezinselelo abhekana nazo empilweni yomshado. Iphupho eliphathelene nokugwazwa ngommese esiswini lingabonisa inkinga yezempilo esongela ukuphila, ngakho-ke umuntu kufanele aqaphele futhi anakekele impilo yakhe. Nakuba iphupho lokugwazwa ngommese esiswini liphazamisa futhi lisabisa, kodwa kungaba yithuba lokuzindla ngezinto ezinzima futhi ube nesibindi namandla okubhekana nezinkinga nezinselelo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho egwazwe ngommese ngaphandle kwegazi
Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokugwaza ngommese ngaphandle kwegazi kungase kudideke kwabanye, njengoba leli phupho lingavela ngokuzumayo futhi libangele ukukhathazeka nokungezwani kumuntu obonayo.
Iphupho eliphathelene nokugwazwa ngommese ngaphandle kwegazi lingafanekisela ezinye izinkinga ezingase zihlobane nobuntu kanye nemizwelo yangaphakathi. Kungavezwa:
- Ukukhathazeka nokwesaba: Leli phupho lingabonisa ukuba khona kokukhathazeka okujulile noma ukwesaba okubangelwa isipiliyoni esidlule noma inkinga engaxazululiwe empeleni. Umuntu kungenzeka wesaba ukulimala noma ukulimala kwengqondo futhi lokhu kubonakala kuleso sithombe.
- Ukungakwazi ukuveza: Leli phupho lingafanekisela ukungakwazi ukuveza intukuthelo noma ukubhikisha ngezindlela ezifanele empilweni yangempela. Umuntu angase aphathwe yizingcindezi ezingokwengqondo okunzima ukubhekana nazo ngokuqondile.
- Ukukhaphela noma ukukhohlisa: Leli phupho lingabonisa ukukhashelwa noma ukukhohlisa umuntu abhekana nakho ekuphileni kwakhe kwansuku zonke. Kungaba nomuzwa wokuqapha noma wokungazethembi ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu noma bomsebenzi.
- Ukuyeka ukulawula: Leli phupho lingabonisa umuzwa wokulahlekelwa ukulawula izimo zempilo. Umuntu angase acasuke noma azizwe engakwazi ukulawula izimo ezithile noma enze izinqumo ezifanele.
Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi amaphupho anezincazelo nezimfihlo, futhi phakathi kwalawa maphupho, abanye abantu bangaphinda iphupho lokugwazwa ngommese esiswini, okuyiphupho elingaqondakali elingabangela ukukhathazeka nokungezwani. Ukugwazwa ngommese esiswini ephusheni kuwuphawu oluqinile olunezincazelo eziningi futhi abantu baluhumushe ngezincazelo ezahlukene. Nazi ezinye izincazelo ezivamile zaleli phupho:
- Ubuthakathaka nokungabaza: Leli phupho lingabonisa umuzwa wobuthakathaka nokungabaza ekwenzeni izinqumo ezibalulekile ekuphileni. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubhekene nobunzima futhi udinga isibindi nokuzethemba ukuze ubunqobe.
- Ukukhaphela nokuxhashazwa: Leli phupho lingase libonise ukukhashelwa noma ukuxhashazwa umuntu ahlangabezane nakho ekuphileni kwakhe. Umuntu kufanele aqaphele futhi asebenzise ukuqapha ebudlelwaneni bakhe bomuntu siqu kanye nomsebenzi.
- Ukuziphindiselela nokungqubuzana: Leli phupho lingabonisa ukuba khona kokungqubuzana kwangaphakathi noma ukungezwani nabanye. Kungase kudingeke ukuba sibhekane ngokuhlakanipha nangokuhlakanipha nalezi zingxabano futhi sifune izindlela ezinokuthula zokuzixazulula.
Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho kuyindaba ethakazelisayo evusa ilukuluku labantu abaningi. Elinye lalawo maphupho ajabulisayo yiphupho lokugwazwa ngommese eceleni. Ukubona leli phupho kungaphakamisa imibuzo eminingi nokukhathazeka. Nawa amanye amathuba okuhumusha iphupho elimayelana nokugwazwa ngommese ohlangothini:
- Ukuphupha ugwazwa ngommese ohlangothini kungase kufanekisele okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu noma inxeba elingokomzwelo eqinisweni. Kungase kube khona othile ozama ukukulimaza noma ukukulimaza empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu noma yomsebenzi wakho.
- Kungase kube nomuzwa wobuthakathaka noma wokungabi namandla lapho ubhekene nezinselele zokuphila. Kungase kube nobunzima nokungezwani okukwenza uzizwe ubuthakathaka futhi ungakwazi ukuzivikela.
- Iphupho lokugwazwa ngommese ohlangothini lingafanekisela ukukhashelwa noma ukukhohlisa ngabantu abasondelene nawe. Kungase kube khona othile okulimazayo noma ozwa itulo ngawe.
- Leli phupho lingase libe yisixwayiso sezingozi obuzishaya indiva empilweni yakho. Kungase kube nenkinga okudingeka uyilungise ngokushesha kodwa uziba noma uthatha njengento ebaluleke kakhulu.
Lichaza ukuthini iphupho lomuntu engigwaza ngommese kubantu besifazane abangashadile?
Ummese uwuphawu lokuhlasela noma usongo, futhi kungokwemvelo ngowesifazane ongashadile ukuba azizwe ekhathazeke kakhulu kunabanye ngalo mbono. Nazi ezinye izincazelo okungenzeka zaleli phupho:
- Ukukhathazeka ngobuthakathaka nokungabi namandla: Ukugwazwa ngommese kuleli phupho kungase kufanekisele imizwa yokungabi namandla noma ubuthakathaka lapho ubhekene nobunzima nezinselele ekuphileni.
- Ukwesaba ukulimala noma ukukhashelwa: Iphupho lingase futhi libonise ukwesaba okujulile kokuthi owesifazane ongashadile uzolinyazwa noma akhashelwe abantu abasondelene naye, futhi lokhu kwesaba kubonakala embonweni osabekayo wokugwazwa ngommese.
- Ukuzizwa ukhathazekile ngokungakwazi ukuzivikela: Iphupho lingase lifanekisela ukukhathazeka kowesifazane ongashadile ngokungakwazi ukuzivikela noma ukubhekana nobunzima bokuphila ngokuphumelelayo, futhi lokhu kubonakala embonweni ophazamisayo wokugwaza ngommese.
- Isexwayiso mayelana nobudlelwano obuyingozi: Iphupho lingase libe yisixwayiso kowesifazane ongashadile ukugwema ukuwela ebuhlotsheni obuyingozi noma ukuhlukunyezwa komuntu siqu, futhi limnikeze isibonakaliso sokuthi kufanele aqaphele futhi azivikele.
Lisho ukuthini inxeba lommese ephusheni?
Inxeba lommese libhekwa njengenye yemibono ephazamisayo nephazamisayo emaphusheni. Ezweni lephupho, isilonda sommese sibonakala njengophawu lokulimala, ubuthakathaka nokuhlasela. Isilonda sommese ephusheni singase sibonise imizwa yokukhohlisa nokukhashelwa umuntu angathola kuyo ekuphileni kwangempela.
Ummese uwuphawu olunamandla olufanekisela amandla, amandla engqondo nobudlova. Inxeba lommese emaphusheni lingase libonise umuzwa wokuba buthakathaka, ukunqotshwa, noma ukwesaba abanye. Amanxeba ahlobene nommese nawo awuphawu lwezilonda ezijulile ezingokomzwelo nezingokomzwelo umuntu angase abe nazo.
Kodwa-ke, isilonda sommese ephusheni singase futhi sisho izinto ezinhle noshintsho oluhle. Ezinye izincazelo zibonisa ukuthi inxeba lommese lingase libonise amandla angaphakathi nekhono lokunqoba ubunzima. Inxeba lommese emaphusheni lingase libe ubufakazi bokukhula komuntu siqu kanye noshintsho oluhle empilweni.
